The PDA Reframe Series
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The PDA Reframe Series
Challenging the lens. Honouring the experience.
A growing collection of practical guides adapted from Kristy Forbes’ live masterclasses — each one challenging the behaviourist lens and offering a nervous system-first, identity-affirming framework grounded in lived experience.
By Kristy Forbes  · Autism & Neurodiversity Support
Choose your guide
Each guide is a standalone, beautifully designed ebook you can read at your own pace, with real-life examples, reflective prompts and practical reframes. $27 each.
Why transitions are so hard for the PDA nervous system, and how to support them through felt safety rather than force. Intolerance of uncertainty, the hidden demand load, creating flow without announcements, and honouring the times when not transitioning is the most supportive option.
$27Â AUD
What declarative language actually is, and why so much of what’s recommended online is a demand in disguise. Narrate your own experience without a hidden agenda, model self-talk and interoception, and let go of compliance as the goal.
$27Â AUD
Moving away from conventional, top-down parenting toward equity, co-regulation and relationship. How to do with rather than to, repair after rupture, and build the relational safety that makes everything else possible.
$27Â AUD
Regulation isn’t about staying calm. This guide explores co-regulation before self-regulation, what the nervous system needs under threat, and practical, nervous-system-first tools for the whole family.
$27Â AUD
How relational trauma develops in PDA families, often unintentionally, and how trust is rebuilt through connection rather than control. A tender, trauma-informed look at repair and safe vulnerability.
$27Â AUD
Demand load across an adult life, burnout, self-understanding, and self-compassion in place of internalised ableism. An affirming, trauma-informed guide for adults with PDA and those who support them.
$27Â AUD
More guides on the way
The PDA Reframe Series is growing. New guides are added over time, each one adapted from a live masterclass and grounded in lived experience. Check back for new releases.
Understanding the experience beneath the behaviour.