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Reflections

Essays from Kristy Forbes exploring PDA, autistic experience, parenting, identity, care, systems and the ordinary moments that shape family life.

Failed relationships & neurodivergence

Sep 11, 2021

Ahh, the wonderful weekend. I hope you're having a brilliant one so far.

This week, for something different, the team and I decided we'd share a conversation with community from my Facebook page this past week.

We touc...

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Appearances can be (so very) deceiving.

Jul 01, 2021
I'm a PDA autistic (Pathological demand avoidance).
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This means that my social connectedness; my ability to engage with others naturally and to make eye contact gives the impression that I possess a higher level
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Sensory overload and a social hangover.

Jun 10, 2021
Sitting here reminiscing about the good ole masking in social situations; days of extreme and intense anxiety for weeks, months leading up to events with other people.
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The day would finally arrive and I’d be fr
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