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Awareness is not a cure for disability: PDA

Uncategorized Jan 06, 2022
Kristy Forbes
Awareness is not a cure for disability: PDA
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I woke up this morning with ā€˜that’ feeling. The one where I’m already anxious before my eyes open and my brain boots up.

My feet are rubbing together furiously and I’m rocking on my side, my organic au...

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Navigating ND Culture: Parenting

Uncategorized Oct 30, 2021

Hello weekend!Ā 

This weekendĀ I chat with you about the varying parenting approaches and styles of neurodivergent families.Ā 

So grab a cuppa, get comfy, and enjoy!Ā 

KF xĀ 

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Stop looking away from intersectionality

Kristy Forbes
Stop looking away from intersectionality
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(Warning: This written content includes discussion around themes of racism, transphobia, homophobia, suicidality.)
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Almost every time I address the topic of intersectionality on...
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What happens when you say "No."

Do you know that you can say No?
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So many of us don’t.
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We’ve been conditioned to understand that No means others will talk behind our backs about our selfishness or coldness.
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I am not my trauma

neurodivergent trauma Sep 24, 2021
Yesterday, my youngest child came inside the house to tell me a bird had fallen from it’s nest.
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As I neared the back fence, where all the neighbourhood birds gather in all of their breeds, c
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Failed relationships & neurodivergence

Ahh, the wonderful weekend. I hope you're having a brilliant one so far.

This week, for something different, the team and I decided we'd share a conversation with community from my Facebook page this...

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It flows through my bloodlines

Uncategorized Aug 25, 2021
We are FIXATED on behaviour as a society. We hastily attach meaning and intention to it, and project our own biased (mis)understandings onto it, based on all that lies within US.
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For many of
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I'd rather stab my eye than do this... (spoiler: it's group work)

I still cringe inside when remembering the moments I heard ā€œOkay everyone, find a partnerā€, or ā€œSo we’re going to get into groups of threeā€...
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No.
Nah, not doin’ it.
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I would rat
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I’ll never ā€˜overcome’ my PDA neurobiology.

I’m often asked how, as a PDAer, I am able to overcome my need for control in parenting my own children with a PDA profile of autism.
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I don’t overcome it.
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I’ll never ā€˜overcome’ my ne
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