Many parents and educators will often witness behaviour from neurodivergent people and find it baffling or confusing because they’re unable to connect it to a particular and recent event.
Being autistic means my processing is on a different timeline.
Often I’ll be reminded of...
(Shared with permission from my adult daughter.)
Cleaning out the shed today, I found a box of things collected since my teens.
I felt such sadness when I found this.
I was 18 when my first baby was born.
I was on my own and lived in public housing, and absolutely loved being a Mum.
In...
Ahhh, resilience.
The word "resilience" and "resilient" sit uncomfortably for me.
I've seen it used for belittling, dismissing, gaslighting, invalidating and bullying more than I've seen it used for good.
How do we measure resilience?
I think we do ourselves a huge disservice as a society by being so...
My girls love school.
They'd push through absolutely anything to be there.
And whilst that's great, and wasn't our experience with all of our girls, it means that we as parents...
When you think of a person who is drug and/or alcohol addicted, know that if those layers were peeled away, you might very well discover an autistic person.
Drugs and alcohol were everything to me.
They were a balm for my lost, hopeless soul.
When I started drinking,...
There is no “imperfection” in human being and doing.
We are all just as we are in the name of diversity; we all serve to teach and learn from one another.
In biodiversity, the forest thrives when all of it’s inhabitants coexist in harmony, as nature would have it.
The human notion...
..and so many of the world's children gradually, slowly but surely, became disengaged and disconnected; never coming out from their safe spaces, no longer connecting with their families.
Built for a world that valued, embraced and accepted all, they lay in wait for the adults to awaken to their...
"I love you. And I love you. I love you all. It's not anyone's fault that Mummy is upset. It's because I'm autistic, and I've had to touch kiwi fruit and mandarines and the juice has got on my skin and now I'm really upset and my whole brain and body feels really yucky and tense and I can't think...