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Reflections

 

 

 

 

 

I'm not looking at you.

I can’t tell you how concerning it is that we have such an incredibly uninformed requirement for autistic people to make eye contact.
 
When we understand autism as an identity and culture, we
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Hello there, passive-aggression.

This morning whilst packing up from a weekend away, one of my children told me I had been passive-aggressive.
 
It was a  shock.
 
I had said “I’m sensing annoyance in your tone” and tha
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This is a difficult time. Let's acknowledge that.

Immerse yourself in communities, places and with people who feel right for you.
 
A group or page isn't necessarily safe or right because someone else says so.
You get to choose.
 
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Awareness month? Nah, not over here.

This morning I'm reminded of an appointment with an obstetrician in the public system seven years ago.
 
I was heavily pregnant with my last baby.
 
He was going over my subsequent pregn
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Repeat after me... "I am not my child."

autism parenting resilience Mar 25, 2021
People need the space and freedom to feel; to explore and understand the incredibly complex depth and range of their emotional life.
 
This begins in childhood.
 
As children, particular
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Let's discuss: "Living with autism."

I'd like to encourage individuals, professionals seeking out education to be better allies, and families of neurodivergent individuals to be cautious when engaging with any information and education
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What I've learned as a PDAer...

If you've seen any of my instastories over at instagram.com/_kristyforbes; if you're in our inTune Access Support: Family Collective membership then you'll be quite accustomed to seeing me in my pyj
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Why wasn't I invited to be a Jedi? (a fun one)

Random weekday memory...
 
I once went against my better judgement out of curiosity (it's ALWAYS that autistic curiosity and fascination with humans, concepts and belief systems) and sat in on
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You have permission to protect your energy.

It's okay to let others squirm a little; to provide them an opportunity to take responsibility for their discomfort.
 
It's okay for us to speak up, to correct pronouns, to share our language
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The problem with mainstream education: Is there one?

Uncategorized Feb 04, 2021
This week, we made the decision to bring home the last of our girls from the mainstream education system.
 
My inner knowing all along was that in order to thrive, she would do best immersed i
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