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Reflections

 

 

 

 

 

Awareness month? Nah, not over here.

This morning I'm reminded of an appointment with an obstetrician in the public system seven years ago.
 
I was heavily pregnant with my last baby.
 
He was going over my subsequent...
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Repeat after me... "I am not my child."

autism parenting resilience Mar 25, 2021
People need the space and freedom to feel; to explore and understand the incredibly complex depth and range of their emotional life.
 
This begins in childhood.
 
As children,...
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Let's discuss: "Living with autism."

I'd like to encourage individuals, professionals seeking out education to be better allies, and families of neurodivergent individuals to be cautious when engaging with any information and...
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What I've learned as a PDAer...

If you've seen any of my instastories over at instagram.com/_kristyforbes; if you're in our inTune Access Support: Family Collective membership then you'll be quite accustomed to seeing me in...
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Why wasn't I invited to be a Jedi? (a fun one)

Random weekday memory...
 
I once went against my better judgement out of curiosity (it's ALWAYS that autistic curiosity and fascination with humans, concepts and belief systems) and sat in...
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You have permission to protect your energy.

It's okay to let others squirm a little; to provide them an opportunity to take responsibility for their discomfort.
 
It's okay for us to speak up, to correct pronouns, to share our...
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The problem with mainstream education: Is there one?

Uncategorized Feb 04, 2021
This week, we made the decision to bring home the last of our girls from the mainstream education system.
 
My inner knowing all along was that in order to thrive, she would do best...
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You might be doing it wrong.

autism parenting Feb 04, 2021

Many parents and educators will often witness behaviour from neurodivergent people and find it baffling or confusing because they’re unable to connect it to a particular and recent event.


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PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) and villains.

Why do so many children with a PDA autistic profile take on the character of a villain, a bad guy or a monster, werewolf, zombie, anything that seems a disapproved of figure?
 
Because we...
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Screens, screens, screeeeeens!

Uncategorized Dec 18, 2020
The holiday season isn't only difficult for ND families due to get togethers, the pressures of complying with "special" days, sensory bombardment, rejection due to behaviour and unsolicited advice,...
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